Posts tagged: confidence
You want to know what really turns a good guys head?
No, not a tongue or belly button ring (although some may like it). And certainly not a large, ancient artifact looking tattoo above where you evacuate your bowels.
It’s Confidence.
Confidence is wearing a fit-for-your-body, smart-looking dress with a big smile, that when you show it, the room lights up immediately.
Confidence isn’t looking bored or pre-occupied while twirling you hair, and checking your phone every three minutes.
You can spot confidence a mile away…and disdain from the same distance.
Confidence doesn’t have to be loud or obnoxious.
Confidence can be conveyed by the way you speak, the way you carry yourself, and the way you look in another’s persons eyes as if to say, “I am comfortable in my own skin”.
Confidence has nothing to do with the size of your bank account and everything to do with the wealth you see in yourself.
What I am saying is…you are enough. You don’t have to be anything else. You have it all now. There is really nothing man can add to what God has already perfected - YOU.
Decisiveness is one of the most commonly held traits of the successful, and is assuredly one of the least common traits of the unsuccessful.
Get in the habit of making decisions, good or bad. No one likes being around a waffler.
To get started, eliminate the words, “maybe, might, thinking about it, possibly, hoping to, wishing, or we’ll just have to see” from your daily conversations. Confident people use those phrases sparingly, if at all, instead opting for “yes’s and no’s” to communicate clearly what it is they mean.
Look at any company large or small and you will see this come to life.
Decisive people know what it is they want and are confident enough to voice it. The waffler is not.
Decisiveness = Confidence, Confidence = Respect
