You have to understand that most every young girl grows up with the image of the fairy tale princess being swept off her feet by the dashing prince and until a few frogs come along, most hold onto that image.

Unlike (most) guys, no woman wants to be one of many. They would rather be your one and only.

The euphoric feeling of new love is great but at some point you have to let her know where things are going or she will force you to.  

You can’t look at that and say “that’s just females, they are all crazy”.  No, she is just being practical.  You can’t expect to take the lead…and then not take the lead on something as important as the direction of your life and your relationship with her.

All women worth marrying have the “3-6 month timer” in their brains.  Generally speaking, the better their parents were growing up, the earlier this topic will surface.  So…instead of dreading ‘the talk’, embrace it, and understand it is only crazy if you don’t want the same thing when you think about it.

What I am trying to tell you is…be honest with her.  If you don’t see things going anywhere, be a man and tell her.  Don’t waste her time or yours.  If you do see yourself spending the rest of your life with her, tell her!  If you guys are “too” young, there is nothing wrong with giving her a (clear) time table on when things can come together.  You know in your heart of hearts that it isn’t fair to make her wait around forever.

Heeding this advice will save you multiple years of fighting and in some cases, unforgettable damage to your relationship.  No woman wants to drag you to the alter much less ride on a ship that never reaches land